
Last night I attended part four of the five-part
Smart Talk series in Minneapolis.
This time, the speaker was Phylicia Rashad -- otherwise known as Mrs. Huxtible from The Cosby Show.
I have very fond memories of watching The Cosby Show when I was younger. I was in junior high the the show first debuted. I was excited for a behind-the-scenes peak into the show.

Mrs. Rashad, though, didn't spend a whole lot of her time talking about the show. She spent more time talking about her childhood, her break through into acting and the lessons she had learned from life.
And you know what . . . even though she didn't talk about what I had assumed she would, at the end of the night, I found myself impressed and inspired.
And calmed. Mrs. Rashad is actively meditates, and I could tell as she had a very soothing and spiritual presence on stage.
I found it heartening to hear that there had been many times in her life when she had felt like everything was going wrong -- not because I wanted her life to be off-key, but because it made her human.
Here is something valuable she said last night that I am going to take away and try to put into regular practice in my life.
But first, I have to set it up a little: So, you know how everyone is always saying we should learn from our mistakes . . .
Not only is that cliche, but it's so hollow. Okay. I'll learn from my mistakes -- but could somebody please tell me exactly what it is I'm supposed to be learning? It seems like the lesson should be clear, but so many times in life, it's not.
Mrs. Rahad, though, had this to say:
Making mistakes should teach us to be more understanding and less judgmental of others.
Easier said than done, but the next time I'm left wondering what I did wrong, I'm going to try and keep this in mind.
Labels: Minneapolis - St.Paul, Phylicia Rashad, Smart Talk