
Cyclone. Earthquake. Cancer. Alzheimer's.
All of these words have entered my ears and left my lips in the past two weeks, and each has left a mark. I haven't felt much like blogging.
While the natural disasters in Asia seem to run on a constantly spinning newsreel online, on TV and on NPR, it is my own personal local concerns that have consumed my recent thoughts.
For example, there is a man I know. His name is Art.
He is an older man with a crop of white hair, a man from around the neighborhood,and although he doesn't know it, he has helped me a great deal.
Four years ago I moved from the city to the suburbs and it was a hard transition for me; I loved my old neighborhood so. I had called that house in the city my home for over eight years and I was fairly convinced that my new home, my suburban home, would offer me little character, connection or charm.
But Art became my character, my connection and my charm. He hangs out at a nearby coffee shop. He arrives every afternoon at 4:30, reads a book, stays for an hour then goes.
But he'll gladly give up his book to talk to me. Regulars tend to recognize each other, whether they are of the coffee tab, pull tab or bar tab sort. After we made our initial acquaintance, Art always remembered to ask me about my writing.
He spots my byline about town and wants to know when I'm going to publish a book. He's so diligent in his questions about my writing career that sometimes I think he's my biggest fan.

After meeting him at the coffee shop, I started seeing him everywhere -- the grocery store, the Chinese place -- and he helped me feel that maybe the suburbs weren't all formulamatic, that maybe this new neck of the woods could be my home.
I knew that Art had struggled with cancer. Yet I also knew he'd beaten it. But now it's back and Art told me the other day, "I've run out of miracles."
"You don't know that," I countered.
"Yes, I do. I've had more than my fair share," he replied.
"So impress me," I prodded. "Tell me about your miracles."
"Well, back when I lived in Lybia," he started and proceeded to spin a tale from decades past. Then he moved on to stories of the Dominican Republic, stories that weren't all palm trees and umbrella cocktails.
I'd had no idea that Art had such a wildly traveled past and it made me start to wonder about the others around me. Who else in that coffee shop had had a miraculous travel experience and was just sitting on it, keeping it quiet?
And then, a dear family friend passed away. She was a woman who'd always been in my life, a woman who'd driven me to junior high choir practice and pulled me water skiing behind her speed boat.
She was a woman who barely sat still, but who in the past handful of years had been bogged down by a myriad of health problems, including Alzheimer's. This was particular tragic as she was just in her sixties. She died the other night at age 66.
But back before Jan learned about her Alzheimer's, she was an avid traveler, a loyal and ardent lover of the human race. She was a woman who took so many trips that her children followed her footsteps and became travelers, too. In fact, her son helped coach my hubby and me through the planning stages of our own global roam.

And yet, throughout these past few years, she was forced to give up that passion in exchange for care centers and care takers, who -- I'm quite certain -- were clueless to her travel past.
All this has convinced me, a traveler who has the wanderlust bad, that us travelers need to be more vocal and diligent about sharing our travel tales before we forget them and before we take them to the grave.
The person on the receiving end might be more receptive than you expected and you just might spark a whole new breed of wanderlust.
If you've made it this far in this travel musing and want an outlet for releasing your hibernating travel tale, check out
this page on my newly launched travel site, a site which I have designed with the goal of sparking wanderlust in a new generation.
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