
I like poetry, but it's not often that I sit down with a book of poems. The act of reading poetry seems to require more stillness, more quietness of the mind then I have on hand these days.
Yet I was recently wandering the stacks of a local bookstore and found myself standing before a shelf of poetry. Hmmm, I thought, poetry.
My eyes were drawn to a slim book with a red cover. No surprise. I like red. Turns out, it was a new book of poems penned by a poet who's name I actually recognized: Grace Paley.
I flipped through the pages and stopped on one. The title drew me in. It was: "I Met A Woman On A Plane."
I read it through, then I read it again. It reminded me of all the random conversations I've had with people I've met on a plane, those stories belonging to others that I just can't shake even though the teller's name is a mystery. Indeed, the teller's face soon fades. But their stories remain.
What is it about an airplane that makes total strangers reveal intimate parts of themselves to others?
The annonymity of it all, I suppose. It's a bit like a confessional. A chance to spill your beans, to say what no one in your daily life wants to hear, and then the chance to walk away from the moment, from the secret-spilling, without any guilt, judgment or blame.
Here is the poem:
I Met A Woman On A Planeshe came from somewhere around Tampa
she was going to Chicago
I liked her a lot
she'd had five children
no she'd had six, one died
at twenty-three days
people said, at least you didn't
get too attached
she had married at sixteen, she
married again twenty years later
she said she loved her first husband
just couldn't manage life
five small children? I said
no not that
what? him?
no me, she said
I couldn't get over that baby girl
everyone else did, the big
kids, you'll drive us all crazy
they said, but that baby, you can't
believe her beautifulness
when I came into the kids' room
in her little crib, not a month old
not breathing, they say get over it
it's more than ten years, go away, leave
us for a while, so I did that, here I am she said
where are you going
* Note * I added commas where the author put none. She intended wide spaces instead, but blogger keeps auto editing out my tabs and squishing all text together. Labels: Musings on Travel